Blerds in the sense of self-hating blacks into nerdy/geeky stuff are actually bleeks (black geeks, shallow consumerist “fandom” knowledge, sometimes not even that bright). True blerds, if they’re girls, benefit from dating affirmative action basically. They get a modest advantage among nerds for dating and end up at par with white women for marriage (this is a smaller net advantage, reflecting that in general, men will date a bigger range of women than they wish to marry and have babies with).
Female bleeks, on the other hand, operate at a disadvantage with both dating and marriage, because they’re stuck with white geeks, who have the same shallow consumerism and lower relative intelligence and who are not going to be interested in an even lower status version of themselves.
This doesn’t hold with female blerds, because understanding or being able to do something technically/intellectually challenging in the nerd arts is sexy to nerds. Combined with their ability to look cute at older ages (black indeed don’t crack), female blerds end up coming out slightly ahead of nerd beckies.
Female blormies (black normies) are more racially closed, as are all normies, so there’s no dating or marriage advantages for them if they somehow end up in a group of whites socially all the time, like a megachurch or something.
The Practical Conservative: Civic-minded Natalism 