I am a female blerd and I have huge advantages in love and marriage because of it.

Blerds in the sense of self-hating blacks into nerdy/geeky stuff are actually bleeks (black geeks, shallow consumerist “fandom” knowledge, sometimes not even that bright). True blerds, if they’re girls, benefit from dating affirmative action basically. They get a modest advantage among nerds for dating and end up at par with white women for marriage (this is a smaller net advantage, reflecting that in general, men will date a bigger range of women than they wish to marry and have babies with).

Female bleeks, on the other hand, operate at a disadvantage with both dating and marriage, because they’re stuck with white geeks, who have the same shallow consumerism and lower relative intelligence and who are not going to be interested in an even lower status version of themselves.

This doesn’t hold with female blerds, because understanding or being able to do something technically/intellectually challenging in the nerd arts is sexy to nerds. Combined with their ability to look cute at older ages (black indeed don’t crack), female blerds end up coming out slightly ahead of nerd beckies.

Female blormies (black normies) are more racially closed, as are all normies, so there’s no dating or marriage advantages for them if they somehow end up in a group of whites socially all the time, like a megachurch or something.

Practical Definitions: Defining the Acceptable Fringe

Something that is important to keep in mind is the concept of the Acceptable Fringe.  This would be behaviors, beliefs and practices that are considered weird or fringey, but do not result in the person or family practicing them being considered “not one of us”.  It’s very important to distinguish acceptable fringe things from unacceptable fringe things mainly because if you don’t understand where the lines are, you can’t really work to combat truly dangerous fringe practices that are being protected by their acceptable-fringeness.

Vision Forum was acceptable fringe until the scandals exploded with Doug Philips’ sexual misconduct and abuse of authority.  Many conservatives didn’t buy into the whole shebang, but owned a few videos or books.  Bill Gothard/ATI was also acceptable fringe, along similar lines.

Quiverfull is (barely) acceptable fringe.  Christian Identity (white nationalist Christianity) is not acceptable fringe.  Interracial and international interracial adoption is acceptable fringe.  A lot of people aren’t really into it in conservativeland, but they don’t want to upset their friends and family who are.  It remains relatively uncommon and fringe in practical terms, though.

Homeschooling is acceptable fringe.  Homeschooling is an interesting case because it’s being successfully co-opted and drained of its fringeyness and, well, that’s another post for another day.

Acceptable fringe: homebirthing.  Unacceptable fringe: unassisted homebirthing.

Acceptable fringe: living off the grid.  Unacceptable fringe: not getting your kids Social Security numbers and birth certificates.

This post is also a work in progress.