Fatherhood in America is changing. Ahead of Father’s Day, read key findings about dads in the United States.
Source: 7 facts about American dads
Key takeaways. Men worked about 2 hours more in work+home in 1965 compared to women, but now they work 6 hours more. And both parents combined work 13 hours more in paid labor than in 1965. And the dual-income family vs. single-income family was already split evenly just five years later in 1970, with dual-income being 49% and single-income (dad only) being 47%. Mom-only was 2% and it’s only 5% now. The breadwinner mama revolution is somewhat overstated.
Median 2016 papa.
Less than 10% of all households making under 50k/yr are married with under-18 kids.
About 20% of all households making 50-99k/yr are married with under-18 kids.
About 33% of all households making 100-149k/yr are married with under-18 kids.
About 40% of all households making 150k/yr or more are married with under-18 kids.
Interesting pattern, that.
Source: 2016 ACS data on household income in the past 12 months.
The story of the transformation of the”housewife” into the “stay at home mother” providing “mother-care, not DAYCARE” in American society in the wake of the Pill and Roe v. Wade is an interesting one and there’s not much information on the internet about it because the idea that there was a transition (and that this transition destroyed a substantial amount of soft power among married women) is not compatible with either right wing or left wing narratives about the topic.
We didn’t really have the term before motherhood could be conceivably viewed as entirely intentional/optional, even within marriage. And nobody seems to ask why it bloomed so suddenly and took over, when by its nature it explicitly separates motherhood from marriage, while housewife emphasizes, well, property benefits of marriage for women foremost. Homemaker, it’s worth noting, has begun to turn up as a transition away from stay at home mother, but it lacks that wilful connecting of property with marriage and in fact shifts the domestic world to something a woman must make/build, rather than something she is inherently part of and maintaining/managing.
Since this is just thinky thoughts, I will close with the little data point that over half of American SAHMs use center-based daycare for children aged 0-4 and that we hit that point about 10 years ago and this is in every region of the country, not concentrated in one place, it’s about half everywhere. Employed or not, it’s 80% for BA or higher-possessing mothers.
The stay at home dad revolution will not be youtube streamed or, like, happen. Living where you actually run into them makes me solidly bearish on this.
Married black women, on the other hand, have experienced a pretty major demographic shift and it’s much more likely they’ll go from their current 5% SAHM to 10% SAHM.
Ancillary prediction is that nobody will be blowing up blue checkmark twitter or mainstream media about how great this is for feminism/black people/motherhood.
I read 10 books for this month.
I read the entire Dark is Rising series. It’s a Narnia-response series, probably. Explicitly anti-Christian, not what I was expecting at all. Once you take that into account, the Celtic and Arthurian mythos and the take on magic are pretty good. It’s five books, that was half my reading for the month. The rest was the Alt-Hero comic (cheesy, but I expected nothing less from a kickstarter superhero comic), Pinocchio (the original), Wind in the Willows (a very lyrical book), the first John Carter book and Larry Correia’s short story collection.
The first John Carter book (some call it “A Princess of Mars”) was not very interesting. It was always easy to get to a stopping point with it until the last 1/4, when it picked up. Larry’s short stories were mostly only ok, due to being heavily licensed fiction stuff of games and such I’m not familiar with.
The current count is 40 down, 60 to go. I made progress with Hippies of the Religious Right, but not enough to write the rest up until a fortnight from now.
Water feature or pond? You decide!
G: “I didn’t mess with the water future!”
Me: “That’s very good. But it’s water ‘feature’.”
G: “I didn’t go near the water future!”
Me: “Feature. Water feature.”
G:”I didn’t throw things in the pond!”
Castle Ladyhawke was previously owned by a deeply strange bachelor. He had some curious habits and his electricity management was one of them.
The house is mostly typical double outlets like this:
Now imagine that the top one is turned off for every single outlet in the house. Only the bottom ones are connected up. This leads to the question of “Why did he do that?”
The answer is that it’s a lazy, weird way to avoid the possibility of overloading or overheating the circuits. Probably.